salam...
wah.. lately saya banyak tulis entry in Malay ya! (and kalau u all perasan, tajuknya sangat la panjang! berjela-jela!)
anyway, in english, how to calm yourself when you are angry with your toddlers?
sebenarnya banyak cara.
Dan believe me, kekerasan bukanlah jalan penyelesaiannya.
Saya tahu, para ibu sekelian sangat penyabar dan penyayang, kan?
I'm talking of those dads yang sanggup memukul anak, merotan, dan sampai tahap mencubit etc!
sangat kasihan kan..? nak pulak anak tu masih kecil lagi.. macam dalam 2 tahun.. macam besar Alia tu.. mana lah faham "jangan sepahkan rumah, ye..."
Anyway, back to the topic, how to avoid using violent when dealing with situations like that?
these are all the steps that i always do..
Sometimes jadi, sometimes they backfired.
So, kalau x jadi, the last resort is solat..
so here's my list..
-pergi dapur.. cari makanan.. for me, if i eat, ALia will come over and ask for some of it.. secara tak langsung, terus jadi x marah.. :)
-Kalau makanan tak ada, then kena masak lah. Usually masak yang simple2 je.. macam fries ke.. chicken meatball ke.. :)
-pergi dapur, buat la apa yang patut. basuh pinggan ke... kemas dapur ke.. anything! as long as i was distracted.
-pergi bilik orang gaji, lipat baju.. sambil dengar to songs on my N95. :) nice huh? biasanya Alia akan join "melipat" sama-sama la.. ahaha..
-buka channel kartun.. Disney Channel ke.. Playhouse Disney ke.. kalau saya bernasib baik, ada la cerita Handy Manny.. :) saya sangat suka cerita tu! layan.... :)
-buka channel 701 atau 702.. kalau bernasib baik, ada la cerita CSI : Vegas.. oh.. grissom sangat hensem! :D
-tu je kot...
biasanya kalau saya buat salah satu di atas, sure saya cool down.. :)
anda pula bagaimana...?
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wah.. lately saya banyak tulis entry in Malay ya! (and kalau u all perasan, tajuknya sangat la panjang! berjela-jela!)
anyway, in english, how to calm yourself when you are angry with your toddlers?
sebenarnya banyak cara.
Dan believe me, kekerasan bukanlah jalan penyelesaiannya.
Saya tahu, para ibu sekelian sangat penyabar dan penyayang, kan?
I'm talking of those dads yang sanggup memukul anak, merotan, dan sampai tahap mencubit etc!
sangat kasihan kan..? nak pulak anak tu masih kecil lagi.. macam dalam 2 tahun.. macam besar Alia tu.. mana lah faham "jangan sepahkan rumah, ye..."
Anyway, back to the topic, how to avoid using violent when dealing with situations like that?
these are all the steps that i always do..
Sometimes jadi, sometimes they backfired.
So, kalau x jadi, the last resort is solat..
so here's my list..
-pergi dapur.. cari makanan.. for me, if i eat, ALia will come over and ask for some of it.. secara tak langsung, terus jadi x marah.. :)
-Kalau makanan tak ada, then kena masak lah. Usually masak yang simple2 je.. macam fries ke.. chicken meatball ke.. :)
-pergi dapur, buat la apa yang patut. basuh pinggan ke... kemas dapur ke.. anything! as long as i was distracted.
-pergi bilik orang gaji, lipat baju.. sambil dengar to songs on my N95. :) nice huh? biasanya Alia akan join "melipat" sama-sama la.. ahaha..
-buka channel kartun.. Disney Channel ke.. Playhouse Disney ke.. kalau saya bernasib baik, ada la cerita Handy Manny.. :) saya sangat suka cerita tu! layan.... :)
-buka channel 701 atau 702.. kalau bernasib baik, ada la cerita CSI : Vegas.. oh.. grissom sangat hensem! :D
-tu je kot...
biasanya kalau saya buat salah satu di atas, sure saya cool down.. :)
anda pula bagaimana...?
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Do you have something / product/ business that you want me to help you promoting it? Just fill in the "Contact Me" form at the bottom of this blog and the charge is : RM35.00 (for a post entry), and RM10.00 per month (for banner spot at the Sidebar). If you'd like to become our sponsor, please click here. Thank you.
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cm tu gak bila balik keje..bila pick up dia kat nursery ngn dia berlari2 ke arah kita, rasa mcm rindunyer dia kat kita..
oh.. bagusnya boleh pretend play gitu... alia x layan pun kalau kita buat2 merajuk gitu.. lagi dipukulnya kita ada la! ahah..
honeylanz:
oh.. ye ke..? alahai sweetnya.. :)