Salam...
I'm so pissed off!
Yesterday, when i took Alisha from her nursery, i can see her nose become very watery... What Happened...? (as far as i can remember, we sent her this morning withOUT the flu)
I asked Amalina (Alisha's babysitter), she said Alisha was 'merengek time nak tido'... sampai berhingus anak aku...?!!!! ( i guess she was crying and they didn't do anything...)
And then inside the car.... jalan-jalan for a while... and then i heard her... "uhuk.. uhuk..".. AIK?? Since when did my baby got this cough..? That instant, my mood totally diminished.
I was so sad.. angry.. and i felt frustrated!!! Alisha has just recover from her skin infection.. and now Bronchitis (AGAIN)..????!!!!
Last nite, when i recall my past experience taking care of my baby who had been warded... TAK NAKKKKKK!!!!!!! I don't want this to repeat! (i kinda become phobia with the ward n taking care of Alisha IN THE WARD).. it was hectic, boring and it was simply something i wouldn't want to go through anymore!
So i guess today is Alisha's LAST DAY with her nursery.
Tomorrow i'd have to work... :(
Sunday, we'd go to Makcik Belakang Rumah's house and ask her, if she can take care of Alisha...
(Funny thing.. i THOUGHT my husband asked her already. Turned out that he asked HER CHILDREN who was playing bikes in front of our house the other day.. And the kids told him that their mom is a babysitter.. oh.. i misunderstood the whole thing!!! )
Please pray with me.. doakan that Makcik will accept Alisha ye.. :)
And doakan Alisha sembuh dari batuk dia tu... Adoi... nak pecah otak memikir... :(
**kalau la ada maid kan best! ..... 
**** UPDATE!!!!
Saya da dapat sorang babysitter.. area Saujana Utama 1. Jauh sikit dari umah kami (Saujana Utama 3).. Tapi arganya agak mahal la... RM400! huhu... tp yg bestnye:
-budak makcik ni jaga sorang je (dekat 2 tahun)
-Makcik ni tinggal ngan anak perempuannya je.. (suami duk ipoh).. so lega sikit la... sekarang ni kan dgr cite macam-macam... uih.. nauzubillah...
tp decision masih lagi di tangan suami terchenta ku... :)
Comments
so what happen actually?
They're supposed to be expert in baby care!!!!
saya rasa :
1. nurseri tu da pack sangt.. so the environment pun tak berapa conducive sgt..
2. biasa nya disease gini dibawa oleh baby lain! baby sebelah Alisha batuk ke, sesema ke, si Alisha inhale dll, dapat! as easy as that.. huhu.. tu yg payah tu..
in fact semalam, idea saya ialah :
-baby sitter
-maid
-mama ammar.. hehe.. nak mintak u jaga Alisha leh..? (leh memain ngan Ammar..) heheh
ietams
tu lah.. letih menjaga... :(
moga alisha dpt bbsitter..
dan ibu alisha pun leh senang ati..
aminnnnnn
so i told her, kalau dia sendiri hantar anak demam pi nursery, n demam tu mayb akan jangkit ngan budak2 lain, dia xleh aspect yg parents lain xbuat yg sama.. sbb kdg2 org terpaksa buat mcmtu sbb xdpt cuti.. n on the first place kalau kejadian jangkit-menjangkit mcm ni, adekah nursery atau babysitter yang salah??
plus maid pun xsemestinya bagus, depan u maybe mcm angel.. belakang u? my neighbour nye maid, bila mak encik n pak encik dia pegi keje, dia marah anak2 diorg maki hamun satu kampung bole dengar..
n mcm yg my paed ckp kat i, kalau nak puas hati kene laa berkorban, resign dan jaga anak sendiri.. sanggup ke? hehehe..
so mcm mana? lu pikir laa sendiri.. hehe..
bsabar la zu.. itula keistimewaan mjadi parents nie... kesabaran tu mmg 1 cabaran kan...
-mama emma yg masih x decide lg on nursery :P-
anak kecik mmg kerap sakit..saya ada bberapa cadangan..sebb iman pun selalu gak kena batuk dulu..alhamdulilah sekarang kurang
i) bagi minum madu setiap hari
ii) adakan sentikkan pnumococol..(ejaan tak sure) utuk sakit2 berjangkit esp anak kita di nursery..
iii) saya bagi anak makan garlic n madu... cincang garlic..sikit ja..alhamdulilah kurang
iv) saya amalkan pakaikan minyak kepala buat sendiri..letak kat ubun2 ..selsema cepat kering..
cubalah..insyaAllah..
tengkiu aunty!!! doakan Alisha dapat baby sitter yg baik ati.. penyayang.. n pandai jaga kebajikan bayi!
Baby Sofia
ah.. tu la.. saya rasa Alia jenis yg x leh ramai2... dia kena ada full attention kot.. :)
mimi
ah.. kalau la leh resign untuk jaga anak.. bestnye.. tp fulus x dak..
precious innocent
ha.. tu la.. tak larat dah nak menanggung cabaran... :(
iza
oh.. gitu ye.. mekasih on the tips!!! nanti saya try! insya Allah...
anyway kalau hantar anak gi nursery dan senang terdedah pada jangkitan demam ke flu ni ada suggestion utk amik pnemococcal punya suntikan tu..saya hari tu ingat nak amek tapi teramik2 lagi utk si husayn ni..
apa2 pon semoga alia cepat sembuh ok!
i completely agree with all the mommy's opinion
macam mimi kata, nursey memang terdedah pada macam macam jangkitan sebab they share so much things together. disease macam flu, hfmd, skin infection kebanyakan spread through direct contact atau air, kadangkala through handlers juga, especially kalau dia tak basuh tangan selepas pegang setiap budak. tapi tak semua parent boleh afford cuti bila anak dia sakit.
iza pun betul juga. pengasuh ni masalahnya kena tahu juga perangai dia. kalau emergency selalu , susah juga. standard of care pun tak semestinya lebih baik daripada nursery. my first babysitter hari tu, tengok botol danial yang tinggal kat umah dia sampai berkerak kerak susu, tak tahu macam mana dia basuh. ambil masa juga untuk tengok sesuai dan okay ke tak.
maid pulak saya tak recommend. simply sebab yang supermummy tulis tu. lagi pun, susah lah. tak ada privacy di rumah. nak bagi makan dia lagi, kena jaga sakit pening dia pulak. ada banyak kes, maid yang datang , sakit pulak. my friend punya maid, dahlah gaji, siap demand top up handphone lagi tiap-tiap bulan..
so , kek na doakan ani dapat yang terbaik. kalau dah suntuk sangat , tak apalah, hantar dulu yang RM 400 ni sementara dapat pengasuh lain yang murah dan okay. kita harap yaya sihat....
erm.. tul gak tu... maid gitu masalahnya.. nurseri masalah tang lain lak.. aduh... semoga Alisha serasi ngan babysitter akn dtg ni.. ;)
Danial
erm.. maid out of question sbnarnya pasal x mampu.. hihi...
babysitter yg 400 tu mahal sgt.. so x amik yg tu kot. try carik alternatif lain (yg blakang umah tu)
1. nursery
kita kena byk saabr. biasala budak kena sakit tu sakit ni. jgn pula pk bila duduk kat rumah sensorang dia tak boleh sakit. itu kuasa tuhan. cuma kita nak elak sebaik mgkn.saya selalu EL.bos bising tapi ku pekakkan je telinga. Anak aku, bukan anak dia!!!
2. maid
mm...ada susah, takde pun susah. tapi kdg2 bila ada, lagi byk susah. biarla kita rasa penat jg anak dari rasa penat nak layan perangai diorg..
ini pendapat saya..